Vocational Discernment
All of us are called to become saints. Holiness is our primary vocation. But the Lord also calls each of us to a particular state in life. This “secondary vocation” is the path that will help us most easily achieve sanctity, so it’s important to figure out what this path is as best we’re able! Start with some of the resources below to begin discerning your particular (secondary) vocation. In the meantime, don’t waste even a day pursuing your primary vocation, holiness!
General Principles of Vocational Discernment
Three Talks on Principles of Discernment
Father Mattingly, our chaplain, breaks down in three 30-minute meditations, many important principles of vocational discernment. These were recorded in 2018 at a City on a Hill silent retreat.
Book: Discernment Dos and Donts, by Fr. George Elliott, 2018.
A basic, introductory look at how to approach vocational discernment.
Book: Discerning the Will of God: An Ignatian Guide to Christian Decision-Making, by Fr. Timothy Gallagher, 2009.
This book guides the reader through St. Ignatius of Loyola’s principles for finding God’s will when faced with any decision (vocation or otherwise). This book, for it to be most effective, should be read in conjunction with Fr. Gallagher’s book detailing St. Ignatius’ first 14 rules of discernment, titled The Discernment of Spirits (2005).
Meeting With A Priest
If you’re intimidated or don’t know where to begin with vocational discernment, feel free to e-mail our chaplain, Fr. Mattingly (mattingly@diocesekcsj.org). He is more than happy to make time to sit down with you himself, or set you up with someone who can help you dive into vocational discernment.
Discerning the Call to Celibacy
Book: Virginity: A Positive Approach to Celibacy for the Sake of the Kingdom, by Fr. Raniero Cantalamessa, 1995.
This is a great book explaining the charism of celibacy, apart from more specific forms of celibacy such as are lived out in the priesthood or religious life. Celibacy, all by itself, is a charism -- a gift, received by far more people than probably realize it.
Discerning the Call to Religious Life
Book (for women, specifically): Called by God: Discernment and Preparation for Religious Life, by Rachel Collins, 2017.
Discerning the Call to Diocesan Priesthood
Book: To Save a Thousand Souls, by Fr. Brett Brannen, 2010.